You say you love me and care for me yet you can be very mean to me at times, you criticise what I say or even my choice of wardrobe today, you even put me down in front of your friends, belittling my opinions. Does this make you feel like a big man; somehow superior to me and women in general? 
It is certainly not the recipe for a loving relationship. So unless you change your tune my darling, you can include me out of all your future plans. Put that in your pipe and smoke it . . .